Thursday, September 16, 2010

What have we been up to lately?

Besides not blogging? Well, life is pretty much kicking me in the rear end these past few weeks. How did I forget how much time it takes to teach a composition class? And remind me why I thought it was a good idea to do this right now?! But I figured I'd better take the time to blog so nobody worries that we might have fallen prey to heat exhaustion since IT WAS 111 ON SUNDAY. That's right. September 19. 111. Sheesh.

Other than staying inside and spending way too much time on school, we had a run of cold/flu, which stretched into 3 weeks for me thanks to an accompanying sinus infection and a return of the cold (and now we're on round 2, since Sweetie came home from school Friday with a fever and is still in bed 3 days later). Also, Mister started football and, whoa, football is quite the serious endeavor, it seems, even when you're 7. He has practice for an hour and a half 3 days a week and has to earn his way into playing time on Saturday's games.

Speaking of football (my students would be proud of me at that fabulous transition of old/new information, which was the topic of today's revision tip), we've been doing a little (read: A LOT) of football watching now that the season is finally here. J, H, and I flew up to Utah to cheer our Cougars on to their first victory. Our good friend Matt got us on the field and sidelines before the game.
And before heading out, for family game night, we broke out the BYU/Utah checkers game. J and Mister were the Cougars, while Sweetie and I were forced to represent the Utes. We were nervous that the outcome of the game might be a foreshadowing of the match-up this season, but J and I argued about his cheating and we quit early. (See, he should have been representing the Utes. Someone please tell him that once you take your hand off your game piece, your turn is over.)
In addition to his football practicing, Mister spent 3 of his days sitting in for recess this week because drawing dinosaurs and white and red blood cells and sickle-back whales have been vastly more important to him than doing homework this week and there's only so much a mom can do before kids have to face up to their own consequences.
Also, Mister lost his first front tooth. Sob, sob, from me. I have been ruing the day because once those new front teeth come in, he will never look like my little boy again.
Sweetie has been insisting that her front tooth is loose, but it's been that way for 8 months now. We'll believe it when we see it. She starts soccer this week and has been loving school, despite the fact that her homework involves recognizing shapes, counting to 10, and coloring. She loves coming home and tattle telling on all of her poor classmates who are not present to defend themselves. Here's a recent Sweetie funny: When we went shopping for discount school supplies to assemble humanitarian kits, Sweetie told me that we didn't need any pencils for the kids in Pennsylvania because they must have plenty already.

And both Sweetie and Mister have been obsessed with silly bands, which they pile on their wrists and trade with friends for different shapes.
Meanwhile, H has been ruling the roost while the kids are gone. He loves it when they come home, but while they are gone, he has been intent on learning new tricks, like bringing me his shoes all day because he wants to go outside (Note to H: IT'S STILL 111!); and like climbing on top of the couch, where he sometimes takes scary tumbles off and sometimes sits nicely reading the hymn book; and like removing his diaper and leaving little Desitin marks around the house; and like throwing or pulling everything off of every height he can reach. The latest object to bite the dust was my huge glass Ikea vase with sticks in it that stood by the door. I thought it was too heavy for him. Guess not. I did decide to put his love of the vacuum to good use. You're never to young to work in this house.
Mostly, I feel like I am not keeping my head above the water of life right now. But I'm still swimming so hopefully someone will throw me a rope or a huge floatie here soon. And hopefully I'll be better at keeping my blog updated . . .

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Birthday thoughts

Today is my 35th birthday.

I have to type it/say it out loud because it's not really real to me. I'm not really 35, am I? As surprised as I am at my own age, I don't think I would wish to be younger. I like the experiences I've had, the person I've become in the accumulation of the days and weeks and years that total 35 today.

This morning I got up early and headed to the gym for some time on the revolving staircase and the ellipsis (there's no better way to celebrate a birthday than to work out hard and feel strong and capable, despite another year added to your age). I was thinking about my birthday as I climbed the unending stairs. I was thinking about how glad I am that I was born to these people in this particular family. I was deeply grateful and felt humbled at that simple blessing that has shaped my days and weeks and years.
Anyway, after teaching my class this morning, I spent a nice chunk of time on my birthday collecting birthday freebies in the form of food (there's no better way to celebrate a birthday than to eat good food that's free and that you have not prepared). I visited Joe's Farm Grill, got lunch for tomorrow at Firehouse subs, picked up my Krispy Kreme dozen doughnuts, and printed off my free Cold Stone for use later this week.

Maybe I'd better head back to the gym tomorrow morning.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

First day of school for me too

Actually, today was my second day teaching a persuasive writing class at ASU. But the first day of a college class hardly counts, right? Just the syllabus and introductions. Blah, blah, blah. Today felt like the first day since I lectured and did in-class group work and collected assignments for the first time this semester. And it's good to be back. I forgot how much I love school and love the college atmosphere (although the college atmosphere at ASU currently involves 112 degree heat and a walk across campus, which would be why, when Mister took this pic at 4pm, 4 hours after my class, my hair is still plastered to my forehead and there's still a shine of the sweat that was.)
See the textbook I'm holding? It's "Everything's an Argument." Well, given H's treatment of my return to school, I think he's arguing against it. He did thoroughly enjoy his time hanging out with his new babysitter in the institute building (complete with ping pong balls and a basketball court--could life for H get any better?). BUT he also thoroughly protested the disruption in his schedule by refusing to nap the morning of my first day teaching and the entire day today. That's right. Just a lot of crying going on around here. Oh, and a lot of destruction. Because a no-napping H means not only do I not get anything done, but H creates even more for me to do. Case in point from this afternoon:
That would be cd and video cases, most of which also do not have their contents in them, thanks to H who likes to open each one to inspect it (and remove it).

And then there's this new development called throwing-everything-I-can-find-upstairs-off-the-landing.
There goes the Diego flashlight to join the pile.
So hopefully H adjusts quickly, seeing as how I did actually plan my 1 hr, 15 min class time for right in-between his naps. And hopefully teaching doesn't prove to be overwhelming for me. Today I could have done without the added stress of a standstill on the freeway due to a car accident, nor was losing my textbook somewhere on campus after it fell out of the stroller any fun.

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Thursday, August 12, 2010

The first day of school and the Mother of the Year award for me


Everyone survived the first day of school! Of course, the day was not uneventful. I mixed up the time that school starts and ends, so I was 10 minutes late to pick them up. And 10 minutes on the first day is not okay. The kids weren't in their classrooms and neither were the teachers, so I went to the office just in time to find Mister and his teacher, who was calling me to tell me to come pick up my child. But no signs of Sweetie. So we ran back to Sweetie's class, but nobody was there, so we ran back to the office again, where we saw Sweetie and her teacher waiting outside in the 110 degree heat, looking tired and frazzled (both of them!) I apologized profusely and handed her teacher the sheet that said I would love to help in the classroom. The poor teacher probably doesn't want me to help in the classroom--a woman who forgets to pick up her own kids on the first day of school cannot be counted on for classroom help, right?

At least I managed to make the traditional back-to-school cakes this year. Not a book, like before, but pencil cakes for each of them. Hopefully the cake-making act negates the lateness. Mister and Sweetie, please remember that your mother made you cakes, not that your mother didn't pick you up on time.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Saying good-bye to summer (vacation, that is)

I shouldn't be blogging. I should be making lunches--peanut butter & honey sandwiches cut in dinosaur shapes was the request. Plus, Sweetie wants raspberries with sugar in her square container while Mister never deviates from the standard grapes. I need to write names on backpacks and fill out forms from meet-the-teacher night tonight. I need to be getting ready to kiss my kids good-bye and send them off to school in the morning.

I'm feeling emotional at the thought, though. Last year I expected to be emotional, with Mister going all day for the first time. But H was a newborn and life was busy and sleep was a rarity and I didn't have much time or energy for extra emotions. Plus I still had Sweetie at home. But tomorrow it will be just H and I. And, yes, there will be bonuses--naptime free to do what I want rather than play legos or mediate sibling arguments, a shower free of knocks on the door to tattle-tell, and only 1 child to cart around on errands--a child who still sits in the seat of the shopping cart so I know exactly where he'll be at all times. But I think I will be a little lonely. I think I will miss Mister telling me about Star Wars and Batman and Sweetie telling me jokes and singing and recapping the morning's adventures for me. I think I will miss playing "I Spy" while eating lunch. I will miss having someone prattling on about this or that. H only shrieks and says "Whoa!"

So I have tried to slow down this past week and enjoy having these two great little souls home with me. Because who knows if next summer they'll want to build forts in the basement or beg me to play Atlantis legos with them. Who knows if they'll still snuggle up next to me and share their caramel popcorn when we have a read-a-thon. I know that some day they won't and I will wonder why not and what happened.

Here are some pictures from this last week of summer vacation. We also visited the new children's museum downtown, which was a lot of fun. The kids climbed, pretended to shop and bake, painted the castle, and ran through the noodle forest (H and I joined them in some games of hide and seek before I got claustrophobic):

Thursday, August 5, 2010

My new source of power

As I'm sure you know, I'm a firm believer in the power of moms. But let's face it, that power is really cumulative. In everyday life, it seems more like I have no power at all--my "please pick that up"s have to be said multiple times and usually need to be accompanied by threats of no video games for a week before anything gets done. My "don't fight with your sister/brother" and "get out of H's face" are usually blatantly ignored. And what I muster up the energy to do around the house just gets undone in a matter of minutes.

But luckily, J gave me a new source of power for Mother's Day. Lookee here:
I'm now convinced that all moms need a really good knife set. It's oh-so-satisfying to cut that watermelon in half with one clean swipe. And the fat on the chicken seems to fall off with one effortless flick of my wrist. If I have to make dinner every night, then I might as well wield some power while I'm at it.

And here's the meal I made tonight that got me remembering how nice it is to have some power around the house these days:

Kabobs with chicken, onions, red and yellow peppers, mushrooms.
Corn on the cob
Fruit salad

Marinade for Kabobs (I did chicken, which I actually like better with this marinade, but steak is good too)
1/3 c soy sauce
2 Tbsp vegetable oil
1 Tbsp brown sugar
1 garlic clove, minced
1 tsp ginger
1 tsp seasoned salt

Fruit salad
Mix:
6 oz light cool whip
1 c buttermilk
1/2 of a lg box vanilla instant pudding
Fold in:
1 can pineapple chunks or tidbits, drained
grapes, apples, banana, strawberries, blueberries
This is a little thin at first. It thickens in the fridge.